Friday, April 5, 2013

Judgemental People?

"You don't have potential on being successful in life if that's all you do everyday and blah blah blah blah blah" Don't you just hate it when someone just unexpectedly judge you? I'm pretty sure everyone must have experienced this at least once in their lifetime. Even at times, I'd be hearing a group judging other people. I just find it plain rude, to even gossip and talk behind their back. People can even judge you indirectly right to your face. I remember this me I was hanging out with friends and some people I didn't really know at a mall, until I overheard them talking about a certain girl couldn't dance at our school. I was just standing there not knowing what else to do while they talk about a girl's low class ability. The second time around I was walking to a friend's house in the summer, and on the way a young girl was walking hand in hand with her child and I thought to myself that it was adorable until two girls walk pass by saying that she ruined her life not being successful for her future etc. From a real life experience, I have been told straight up and I didn't like it at all. I was told I couldn't so certain things properly, pretty much lowering my self-esteem which really got me off guard. In my opinion, I feel like people engage in this behaviour by trying to bring down the potential everyone has. They envy what other people can do instead of themselves. They probably hve a different perspective on how they see people. Maybe they dislike certain things ny what other people do that seems to bug them, or grew up differently about how their atitusw is to everyone. From what I think, people who easily judge other individuals by what they is to keep in mind the saying "never judge a book by It's cover" in their head before officially judging. Whenever they see what they don't like about someone, they should know that they can't say anything because clearly they don't even know them.

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