Why swear if you can say something good?

                 

               Don't you feel like your ears are going to burst if you hear people swearing? Or does it irritate you or wanting to cover their mouths with some adhesive tape just to stop them from saying course languages? I mean it is not even an everyday word to use but it seems like its the only expression they know.

                 People who like swearing thinks it's cool but actually it's not. It only reduces the respect people have for them. It is disrespectful, immature and abrasive. What's worse, if you swear a lot, it can lead to violence. Profanity or swearing is not just expressed by word but also in "signs or poses". A lot of poses are invented nowadays and it includes raising their middle finger on pictures. Sometimes they do inappropriate poses.

                I had a friend who migrated in the States, two years ago. She tried to fit in on her environment and wanted to change herself. She was so innocent before. Therefore, what she did was, she started swearing and being lazy. One time, she showed me a picture of her doing the 'bad sign' on facebook and she wanted me to 'like' her picture. I told her, why would I like it if there is nothing good on her picture. But instead, she told me that there's nothing wrong with it and it is just for fun.

               After the experience I had, I started hating people who swears a lot. I go to school everyday and foul words are the first words you're going to hear. I know, when people get offended,they swear. Also, whenever they get startled or tripped, bad words are automatically coming out of their mouths. They should not list it on their vocabulary. They shouldn't make it as a habit. Why? because it is only a lazy use of language and people around them will feel uncomfortable.

               Swearing is everywhere. It is not just in school, malls and in park. Like I said, EVERYWHERE. Can you imagine how people get influenced easily? They are influenced by their friends, the media, and the environment they live in. Or maybe there's just no one who could tell and correct their wrong behaviour. I cannot think a lot of ideas on how to change the bad attitudes they have. All I could recommend is to tell people around you to pick the "right friends" to hang out with. I am positively sure that they can be a good influence to you.

There is actually a saying that goes "Tell me who your friends are, and I will tell you who you are..."